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Bio
The Full Story of My Stroke
On October 18, 2006, my whole life changed forever. I felt a sharp pain in my head — then everything went black. I woke up a month later at Foothills Hospital in Calgary, having suffered a severe brain hemorrhage. My world had turned upside down.
Over the next five months, I underwent a grueling recovery, relearning how to walk and talk. It was one of the hardest things I have ever done. But with each passing day, I pushed myself harder, determined to regain my independence and return to the life I loved.
After leaving the hospital, I spent a year at an intensive rehabilitation facility in Ponoka, constantly discovering new ways to make my life more fulfilling.
Before the stroke, I was an avid outdoor enthusiast — skiing, climbing, mountain biking. Afterward, I had to learn how to participate in these activities differently, adapting to my physical limitations and developing new techniques. I found new passions like adaptive climbing and power wheelchair hockey. I even became something of an adrenaline junkie — skydiving, rappelling, and rafting are now among my favorite adventures.
My New Reality
The past two years have been the hardest of my life. I was homeless for five months, living in a shelter because surviving the middle of a Canadian winter alone with my condition was not an option. I lost everything — including my phone. Slowly, things got better. I began rebuilding my life, stripped of the superficial things I once thought mattered. I am now a resident of an assisted living facility for people with disabilities at Inclusio.
Cross-Country Skiing
From age 10 to 18, cross-country skiing wasn’t just a sport — it was a way of life. Competing at a high level throughout my youth, I earned multiple provincial and Eastern Canadian titles and proudly represented the Quebec team. The highlight of those years came at the Junior Canadian Championship, where I claimed a bronze medal. I attended a sports study program in high school, and during my teens, the sport consumed me entirely — it shaped my discipline, my drive, and my understanding of what it means to push past your limits.
Journeyman Mechanic
My career in the trades started at the bottom — literally washing cars at a Chrysler dealership. Two months in, my work ethic earned me a promotion to apprentice mechanic, and I never looked back. I fast-tracked my credentials by successfully challenging the final-year exam of my apprenticeship program, earning my journeyman ticket ahead of schedule. I developed a specialty in electrical systems and complex diagnostics — the kind of problems other mechanics handed off. I thrived on them.
ACMG Rock Guide
In what feels like a previous life, I built a career as a professional mountain guide. I obtained my ACMG diploma from Thompson Rivers University in 2002 and went on to work both as an employed and independent guide. I even became the youngest examiner for the ACMG’s new rock guide certification — a milestone that spoke to how quickly and deeply I had grown in the field. A promising career stretched out ahead of me. Then, as it sometimes does, destiny had other plans.
Writer
Over the past 15 or so years, writing has been both a creative outlet and a lifeline — the reality of living with a disability is that you find ways to fill your time with meaning. Over the course of a decade, I wrote my memoir, Mountaineer to Stroke Survivor: Never Give Up, which was published by Olympia Publishers. The response from people around me was encouraging, and the book was even featured in Gripped Magazine. Despite that, the publisher discontinued it due to lack of commercial interest. The world, it seems, was not yet ready to confront the truth about disability or engage with subjects still considered taboo.
Now, I am channeling that hard-won wisdom into something new. I am crafting a reality and fantasy story—one that seamlessly merges the world as it is with the world as it could be. It has the potential to be an incredible movie, and I believe some of my story might eventually make it to the big screen.
Pianist
I took ten years of piano lessons growing up. My stroke took away my ability to play, but with time and effort, the shakiness in my left hand has become controlled enough to make a comeback. My right hand is a different story — however, there is a wealth of music written for the left hand alone, and I plan to explore all of it. I aspire to become a good beginner left-hand pianist — not for audiences, but for myself. I am self-taught, drawing on years of prior experience.
Piano is a peaceful way to pass the time in my apartment because there isn't much else for a lonely disabled person.
Video Producer
I have been a video producer for 17 years. I have over 80 videos on YouTube, with about a dozen that I consider truly quality work. I have tried for years to break into film festivals and succeeded twice — once in Spain, once in New Zealand at The New Zealand Mountain Film & Book Festival. It is a tough road for an independent filmmaker, especially as a one-man show living with disabilities.
Visual Art
I am an artist by passion, not by design — something to do, as I like to say. You can view my previous work on this site and my newer style at ArtJourney.
Web designer (for myself)
I am not a tech person by nature, but I have taught myself enough to build my own websites. At one point I had five running simultaneously. Now only this one remains — and that is enough.
Other Skills and Traits
Faith
I am a committed Buddhist — not quite at the level of a monk, but close in spirit. Some people have called me the reincarnation of Buddha. Whether or not that is true is beside the point. What matters is that I believe in a force that runs this world — something beyond any single doctrine. I believe in compassion, love, karma, and the laws of interconnection within the universe.
Environmental Activist
As a retired Rock Guide (disabled joke — like if it was a choice rather than forced retirement), I have always been close to nature. The disregard that humans show for the environment is, frankly, absurd. I think it is a profound loss — and I suspect the solution might come from people who have been forced to slow down and actually pay attention to the world around them.
Chess Player
I love chess. It is one of the few competitive pursuits perfectly suited to a wheelchair. One day, I plan to reach an advanced level online, because I see no reason to fly across the world to sit across from someone when you can play from home. Competitive chess culture can be a little self-important, but the game itself is pure.
Health
I am a health fanatic. I do not go to a gym. I sit down for most of my day. And yet I look about 25 years younger than I am. My formula: no stress, eat well, sleep enough. The first two matter most. Stress is the silent killer — sometimes the only cure is radical simplicity. Food-wise, I eat 100% organic — not “organic-ish,” not organic with a list of additives. Real organic.
Living in assisted housing, meals are provided, but I supplement with my own cereal, nuts, fruits, and Ensure drinks. That is genuinely all I need. Organic food is ridiculously expensive — it should be the opposite. Until the economics change, food and rent are my two biggest expenses.
Minimalist
Homelessness has a way of clarifying what you actually need. I now own a laptop, a tablet, a cell phone, an electric toothbrush, an electric piano and a small wardrobe. That is it. I have never been happier.
Wrap up
By the way, I go by the name Remy Bernier and Truce for my visual art (cooler than Remy). To show how challenging writing can be, I completed my bio in just 6 hours—remarkably quick by my standards. You could say I’ve developed a superpower.
Goals in Life
A life measured not in perfect victories, but in the courage to attempt.
Podium at Junior Canadian Championship in cross-country skiing. ✓
Journeyman diploma in mechanics. ✓
ACMG Rock Guide diploma at Thompson Rivers University. Very proud. ✓
Visual Art Artist — Chased it. Put work into the world. Never became a name. ✓
Video screened at a major film festival. ✓
Publish a Book — Did it. Fell flat. Still counts. ✓
Build a Website — Built it. ✓
Start a Business — Started it. Watched it fail. Learned more than most. ✓
Start a Movement: New Age Peace & Love — It exists. Small, but real. ✓
Master a Martial Art — Mastered it. Then the body said otherwise. Still a master. ✓
The score isn’t wins and losses. It’s showing up.